YES! That's all women want to hear! In the words of the famed Chris Rock, don't even let them finish their sentence. Baby can I have a..Yes! Baby will you..Yes! YES YES YES! This is the only way to avoid conflict and be at peace. Our fathers have told us this and their fathers have told them the same. Its a never ending piece of advice passed on from generation to generation. No matter what a woman says she HATES to feel like she doesn't have the upper hand. This is why we throw in the towel for every argument. We give women the satisfaction of thinking that they won the argument and we get the satisfaction of not having to hear them complain. I know I'm gonna get a lot of shit for this blog but whatever ladies this is what its for. Lets create some dialogue. Trust me, all men are gonna agree and most women will too. Men can never win an argument with a woman because we operate with logic and common sense. Women operate with emotions. Plain and simple. If they feel backed up in a corner they will bring up shit from the past, they will call you names, shit, even talk about your mother. As long as they can get you heated enough to either hurt their feelings or put hands on them. Ultimately you will be the cause for the fight. Now don't get me wrong I don't think men should ever hit a woman but if u talk about my mom I might shake the shit out of you..lol!
I have been single for the last 5 yrs but its been by choice simply to focus on my career because a relationship is work and right now I just don't have that time to dedicate. Now ladies I'm not saying that men aren't a handful as well. I know that many times men can act like little bitches just to keep it all the way real. BUT..for the most part we are simple creatures who just want to eat, have sex and watch sports. Anything you want to do in between is cool with us. We'll even go shopping with you and chase you around the mall for 3 hours while you go through every shirt and pants in every store and only walk out with a lipstick you found in Sephora. I am in no way trying to come off as a chauvinist or a man who is not sensitive to a woman's feelings. I get it! We both have to be there for each other through thick and thin. Its 50/50. I just cant sit here and argue with you all day about senseless shit. I'm not talking about if your man cheated or if he got caught indulging in promiscuity. That's something completely different. Overall if your not happy with your situation then CHANGE IT. Who knows maybe I bailed out of my last relationship to early but at the end of the day I was unhappy so I made a change.
I don't feel sorry for men or women who constantly say they have headaches from their partner. Yes as couples we all have headaches and you must go through them to test the love for your counterpart but there is a line and ultimately there is no love like love for self!
To finish up I hope I can get some good feedback on this. Lets create some good dialogue here! Pls leave your comments here and not on facebook or texting me!! Ladies....I love you all! YES! YES! YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
